| FAQ | Children |
| Spiritual care of people who are sick, dying or bereaved following the loss of a loved one
is an important part of our ministry at St Peter’s. Our Ministry team is always willing to meet
with people at difficult times, to talk and pray with them. Wherever possible, we would wish to be
involved with the funerals of Christian people with a connection to our parish.
If you would like someone to visit or pray with you please speak to one of the Ministry Team or contact the Parish Office. If you want to organise a funeral or burial of ashes, it is generally easiest to make contact through a funeral director, who will co-ordinate diaries and make the necessary practical arrangements. |
Do you hold healing services at St Peter's? – Yes, we generally hold a simple healing service at 6:30pm on the first Sunday of each month, at which people are welcome (but not required) to receive laying on of hands and prayer for healing. If a sick person cannot get to church we will visit for prayer and laying on of hands.
Can I receive communion at home or in hospital? – If you are unable to get to church for Holy Communion, please contact one of the Ministry Team, and we will make the necessary arrangements.
How can I make peace with God before I die? – Even after a good life well lived, many people feel there are ‘loose ends’ - unwanted baggage of past failures and regrets which they would like to unload before they meet their Maker. Our clergy consider it a great privilege to spend time with people at the end of their lives. A visit may simply involve the priest listening to the dying person’s story and praying with them for whatever is on their mind. Alternatively, if this is what the dying person wants, it may take a more formal shape, possibly including confession and absolution, anointing with oil, and Holy Communion. Whenever possible and appropriate, we would hope close family and friends would be involved in the prayers.
Can bodies still be buried in St Peter's churchyard? - Unfortunately the churchyard is full, and therefore closed to further burials. Most local burials now take place in Burvale Municipal Cemetery. Our churchyard can, however, still accept burials of cremated ashes, either in the Garden of Remembrance or in an existing family grave.
May I put a memorial in St Peter's churchyard? – Because our churchyard is closed, and because the church is located in a conservation area, there are very tight constraints on the installation of any new memorials. There is, however, a Book of Remembrance maintained in the Lady Chapel in which we record the names of all those whose ashes are buried in our churchyard. Some people also may like to donate a tree in memory of a loved one to beautify the surroundings of the church.
Is it better to hold a funeral at St Peter's or at the Crematorium? – This is a matter for your choice. If you have good family memories of St Peter’s Church (weddings, baptisms &) you may wish to hold the funeral at St Peter’s, possibly followed by a short service of committal at the crematorium. If, however, you want to keep things short and simple, the crematorium chapel is a good alternative. Our Ministry Team will lead services at either.
What support do you provide for the bereaved? – Adjusting to the death of someone you have loved is always a lengthy process, and one in which people need lots of support. Family and friends can be enormously helpful at these times, but sometimes an independent listening ear can be called for. We have a small Bereavement Visiting Team which supports the clergy in this work.
We have used the resources of Winston's Wish in the past and have sent children on their residential weekends with good results.
Winston's Wish is a specialist charity based in Cheltenham that helps children and young people prepare for bereavement and helps them and their families rebuild their lives after bereavement. It offers a range of resources, including: